Lay his head down in your lap and, once his neck is comfortable, start lightly tracing the angles of his face with madsage tips of your fingers.
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Hands, like feet, are the map of the body. Make sure not to put too much pressure on the knee pits while you use your thumbs to gently massage the area around the kneecap.
This means instead of going straight for the nipples, massage around the breast. This would be a good time to mention how much you love your man's muscular stems.
2) use erotic oils or lotions.
Make sure you're taking your time and focusing on each muscle before moving to the next at least two minutes per area. And, spoiler alert, tension is one of the leading causes of boner killers.
Put the focus and feeling into what you are doing. Luckily, you can have both.
Repeat on the left side. Nothing says romance like the gift of relaxation. Start with the basics and learn as you go. Not only will this help your spouse unwind and feel comfortable. Everything everywhere — carefully.
Thanks, day jobs. You can massage the wrists, fingers, ears, the back of the neck, and the insides of the elbows and knees…these areas are probably rarely given any attention. Then, and this is not gvie, but highly recommended, go ahead and get naked yourself and cuddle with them.
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They are literally a sensual map of all the body, reflecting different organs and even personality. Here, you want to tease them. Its simple, but simple is effective. Be gentle, but not too soft — press a little and work with your thumbs. Why give a sensual massage? While we're arguably more in control of and confident about our sexuality than ever, there's still so much we don't know about female arousal.
The Clavicle Another erogenous zone, baby! This is a very sensual massage that is perfect for a romantic foreplay.
Massaging this area can relieve stress, tension, and pain — which are total arousal killers. She should start to get a little restless. Want to up the ante?
Say its your 5th date, she find your massage book on your bedside table and she sparks some curiosity. She accepts. After dinner things start to get romantic vive you offer her the full treatment. Most of us hold a lot of tension in our neck and shoulders I personally collect a plethora of knots in between my shoulder blades…so this is the main area my husband massages for me. You can really set up shop in any room, but if you have kids and want to ensure privacy I would recommend doing so in your bedroom wink, wink.
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You can relieve stress and release pressure just by laying the person straight. Her shoulders will be the most tense, so many find it good to focus a lot of attention on this area. It is very important to read her body language — look at her face and listen to her. Feel free to rub, kiss, lick, and even nibble on these neglected regions. But if you do it — be gentle.
The right atmosphere You don't need a huge flat or spare bedroom to give an erotic massage in, as long as the space you do have is nice and gie and comfy. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. Read her body and listen.
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I once had a man massage the sides of my belly, one of the few places where I have no muscles or tendons. The Armpit Getty Images Giv know what you're thinking, but all creases are erogenous zones, including those hairy pits. The Hips Yep, even the hips can be super sensitive on men — so give him the best tease ever by kissing his hip bones.
This is one of the most relaxing massages to receive and can quickly turn into a sensual evening.